Question:
Ok... here we go.
2 nights ago my best friend who i like very much were supposed to go shopping, then we'd pick up her best girlfriend and go to this college fair. Well, turns out she brought along her best friend for the whole time and i felt quite left out a lot. But whenever her best friend was not around, such as in the bathroom,she'd be hugging me and being so nice.
Later on, as we were walking outside, i was cold so she warmed me up. I told her i was the one who should be warming her, and she said, "its ok, we have a dysfunctional relationship."
So anyway. We dropped off the friend and she drove me home.
Then, we turned to each other and gave each other a nice kiss on the lips.
She got out of her car and told me to throw something out for her. I came back and she asked for me to throw something else out. I said I'll do it later and hugged her and we kissed again. And again. We hugged. I kissed her once more and then she had to go.
Later that night, she told me that she liked the good night kiss. It felt so good, becasue this was my first time kissing her or any girl for that matter and it felt so right and so amazing..
But last night, I saw her at a football game and she didnt seem as sweet as the night before. She seemed more concentrated on seeing other people. Eventually, we went off alone and she laid on me and we just talked. But she started talking about another guy and i got so jealous.
This night i got no kiss. It was like last night never happened.
So i talked to her last night, and she said that she was just overexcited cuz she never sees the guy. And she liked laying with me. Everything seemed ok.
I'm just scared about that kiss though. I really like her, and she told me she liked the kiss, but she acted so different the next night that I dont know what to think. Maybe its cuz shes on her period?
I dont know... any advice will be GREATLY appreciated... this girls my best friend but ive liked her for almost 2 years, and if we finally got together it would be amazing...
Sorry about the ridiculously long post...
Answer:
Ok, first of all, you should probably cut out the "she's on her period" crap, because speaking as a woman, I HATE it when guys blame my moods on my period. It's just not cool and it's extremely disrespectful of the girl. And not only that, but it doesn't make any difference in the first place, so you shouldn't even be thinking that.
Secondly, I fell in love with my best friend, who is a guy, but I took a chance and told him. We've been dating since January. The point is that there comes a point where you have to just talk about how you're feeling and make your move. I was afraid of losing the friendship, but I was even more afraid that he'd start dating someone else first. So I had to say something, and I did. And he felt the same way, so we're together. It never would have happened if I didn't take a chance.
So, I believe that you should do the same. If she's your best friend, she shouldn't be judgemental, even if she doesn't feel the same way. She should be understanding about it. If not, then I think perhaps she wasn't as good of a friend as you thought she may have been?
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Im sorry
One of my friends (a girl) said that was possibly it. I didn't mean to offend
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its all good...my friend in my class, holy man stay outta her way haha .. neways, about this girl. its prolly just as awkward for her as it is for u. like, im in a relationship with my best friend whos in my class and we grew up together. and small town, so its weird dating a classmate. well its awkward and awesome at the same time..cuz after 10 years, we finally realized we like eachother? haha....second of all, hes not ready for the physical stuff cuz it reminds him of his ex girlfriend whom broke up with him in summer...he said to me he just misses her as a friend, nothing more. and i understand perfectly cuz ive been there, done that. me and my ex never talk and we used to be TIGHT.
wat im getting at is, she prolly needs to get it digested on wat happened. like its a pretty big deal. and dont be jealous about the guy...hes just an old friend! just give her her space for a lil while..and she'll come around to u
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I'm confused....
are you male or female?
is she your friend or your lover?