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thanks everyone for the positive vibes. i sure need them! i am doing better today- figuring that it is out of my control. i guess i will just have my ups and downs. i will feel much better after next week's u/s. i think i'll feel a little better with each "good news" visit to the RE.
Trying- thanks for the kind post. i was glad to see this thread because i KNOW people in here understand how hard it can be. I am holding on to the hope as I know i CAN get pregnant. however, this last time, it took over a year. i was seeing a fertility RE - took one round of clomid and 2 rounds of injectibles and IUI's. So unfortunately, i don't get pregnant that easily. But at least it does happen. So, I know i am getting the care I need and am doing everything possible to keep the pregnancy. i will stay positive for you too!
Red
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Hi Girls, We definitely know what you are going through.
I started this thread many moons ago, I"m almost 34w, and NEVER thought it would take off like it has! If you search for the original thread, you'll see quite a few of us that had the same problems and fears.
Some of us are in the final stretch, so we need you guys to keep this thread going.
It has helped me soooo.... much through my entire pregnancy. I really don't know what I would have done. No one I know understands the pain I've been through, but all of you girls have been such a great support.
All I can say, is Try and stay calm, Which I know is sooo hard. But, take it one day at a time and enjoy the life inside of you. No matter what happens, that baby is alive now and needs your love.
Something that helped me, was to see my pregnancy different than having a baby. If you think to far ahead, it's torture. Relish in the feeling of being pregnant, some women never even get that far.
Good Luck and keep us posted!
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I just wanted to wish you gals a Merry Christmas!! Not too much longer & we're gonna start having more birth stories from our thread...I am SO excited!!
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hi everyone,
meluca here. i havent posted on this thread before but i am finding comfort reading it. today i am starting my 6th week (baby's 4th week) and in the beginning i felt some preg. symptoms like sore bbs and aching lower tummy, emotional, but as of a weak ago i have felt next to nothing and it is freaking me out.
in 10/2006, i had a m/c when i was 9 weeks and baby was 7.1 weeks. i didnt have any clue about it at the time -- we went in for an u/s and there was no heartbeat. it took another 2 weeks before things started passing out of me.
i am worried my preg. might be going down that road again. not having any preg. symptoms is stressing me out and i am struggling every minute not to cry. dh tells me not to worry but how can i not ??
last preg. i felt preg. even up until the m/c.
shouldnt i have a stronger appitite ? shouldnt have frequent visits to the restroom ? something ? i have nothing.
but on a positive note, i dont have any cramping either....
any advise would help.
thanks everyone !
m
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hi everyone,
hope your all enjoying your christmas!
what a great idea this thread it, very comforting to read!
Im pregnant again (16 weeks) after a mc in march and am finding it very hard to enjoy this pregnancey. my mc in march was discovered after some very lite bleeding at 10 weeks i went for a scan which revelived the baby had no heart beat and that it had proberly been like that for a couple of weeks.
I have been so worryed this time round, thank god everything was ok at my 12 week scan and iv had no bleeding. i cant help worrying all the time tho i keep thinking after each appotiment (scan/lisioning to the heart beat) ill start feeling better about things but it only lasts for a few days then the worry sets back in. Being past the sickness stage worrys me two at the moment most days i feel completley normal except for my tiny buldge then i worry my belly isnt showing!.
Also being christmas we have started receving gifts for the baby which is lovely but makes me think about the baby more. i guess i dont want to get excited about the baby yet coz im afraid of losing it.
iv got a midwife appoitment on thursday so hopfully it all goes well and i get to hear little ones heart beat away again!
goodluck to all of you, im looking 4ward to chattin on this thread!