Question:
Hi Ruth,
Why sorry? I thank you so much for sparing your time for me and also many other people here. THANK YOU!
I would take "right person, wrong time".
But truly loving her and then finding out/realising that the relationship is pointless is really hurting. Withdrawing is very hurting.
I would really like to love and care for her, the day she realises the real me. The day she decides to truly love me. I cant help her, ask her or show her to do this. It should come naturally from her, without any force! Without any restriction! Without any conditions!
I stopped talking to her again. When she was in Uni, near her Uni, few guys tried to drag her into a car. She managed to pull away. I asked her to make a police report so that there would be at least some police patrolling happening on that area to drive away those guys. I know she will not listen but I gave the advice and then took the hurting.
The heart hurts a lot. I dont know why, but is just hurts.
I guess depression is setting in. Have to go do something this weekend.
Answer:
Hi Ruth,
Weekend was OK. Didn't do anything though. Was just reinstalling my PC with Windows XP SP2. Planning a trip this weekend... Hopefully my friends can make it.
Very worried for her. Very. Buy why worry if she does not worry.
Have not called or texed her for a week now. Wanted to do it so much today, but I just asked God to take care of her. I refrained from doing it.
Will start a new thread, let me think of a title for it first. Maybe I'll park it at Relationship Issues.
The car is wonderful. It's a Honda - City, with a VTEC engine. Enjoying it to the max with normal driving. And when flooring the gas pedal, the accelleration, the engine sound, it gives a nice chill down the spine! WHOOOOHH!
Answer:
Hi ThiSel,
How was your weekend?
I'm sure you were very worried for her safety. Tjat was correct that she should report it - maybe it will help prevent another girl from the same thing - but true, she will have to do this herself...
Whether it is this girl, or someone that you have not even met yet, you are doing alot of work on becoming a better person. That will make your next relationship more healthy and more able to stay together!
I was going to mention - if you want to get more thoughts from others just go ahead and start a new thread! I'm betting people don't want to jump in here while we're talking back & forth!!
Are you still enjoying your car?
Take care, I have a feeling there are great things in your future my friend!!!
Answer:
Sounds like a good idea!
There are alot of good folks with lots of strong & honest viewpoints on the Relationships Board. Your situation isn't as much of a mental health issue as it was originally and I'm sure you'll get alot of helpful responses.
(and I promise to wait at least 4-5 days before I add my thoughts!)
We are going away for the weekend too! It has been awhile since we've been able to get away and I'm looking forward to it.
Take care, see you next week,
Ruth
Answer:
Hi Ruth,
I was busy on another newsgroup last week. Posting about my car.
I had a silly problem with my car. My dashboard was painted, so after leaving a non-slip mat, the paint actually came off with the mat. I complained to the service centre and the guy refused to give me warranty.
I was disapointed and then I tried to release the disapointment. Then, I GOT ANGRY!!! I screamed at him. I really did. Had the whole service centre looking at me. With the muscle twitching action in my eyes and all. Felt nice getting angry. So much energy being released.
I wonder how much energy I still have trapped inside. I totally agree with the movie "Anger Management" now. No point repressing something you shouldn't repress.
Didn't go anywhere last week. Planning to go on a treasure hunt organised by Honda in my place next week. Gonna have my mum going furious over this... (haven't told her yet)
Posted a thread on the relationship issue. Have a look.
How was the weekend trip? Hope you enjoyed yourself?